Apparently nothing… where sex is concerned for women anyway.
Browsing the online papers on a Monday morning came across a bit of a risque subject; why women have sex. According to Cindy Meston, a clinical Psychologist and a author of a book about the subject, there are exactly 237 reasons why. And love isn’t one of them. We are apparently a lot more manipulative in our reasons for choosing out sexual partners, often looking for the benefits. Men it seem, have less reasons to do so, other than the obvious. They just wanna get laid.
I wish this analogy was so simple. Yes, we do have our reasons… but this article makes out there is always a background philosophy behind doing it. What about if women just enjoy it? I guess I goes along the reasoning of a release, but this article does not imply so. Particularly when the aparently happily married woman says that she “makes lists in her head” while making love to her husband. Nice.
I still think married couples have sex with their spouses to love and be loved. As well as many other reasons.
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